went to the loreal pte sales wi my mum today,could see that mummy and i throughly enjoyed ourselves coz we bought loads of goodies for ourselves....yay
hee...all skincare and mu stuff...and guess wat...its from all those brands that are normally way out of my budget...=x...
mummy saw it as a way of pampering herself while i saw it as a way of rewarding myself for having to survive looking after my aunt's lil monkeys....
haha....i had subconciously agreed to help my aunt babysit her kids when i was out hunting for dolly's ships stuff and would up having to be a baby sitter for two whole weeks.
they're cute and loavable when they want to be but they can be a really terrible...think i really got an in-sight of what it would be like looking after kids like them...it would be a joy as well as a chore...its like a love hate relationship with this chore.
the task sounded simple but had to do lotsa things that i wouldn't even do for my own home...
i was like my mum...
responsible i became responsible for teaching, looking after and cooking for my cousins....ok maybe not the cooking part...but i really couldn't bear eating all three meals outside: coz the food's normally msg laden making it really sinful and unhealthy to have.
so i read cook books, memorised recipes and cooked:
bought loads of fruits,veg,meat and stuff to cook...
i taught the boys life skills...like how to look after themselves aka clean up after themselves.
its kinda unbelievable that they didn't know how to do anything useful around the house....
stuff like clear their books, putting away their dishes packing their stuff and all....Plus how to prioritize their work and manage their time...
brought them out on a couple of occassions and learnt something really important...make them carry their own stuff in small bags so that no has to carry their stuff for them.
told them "if you find it a chore to carry your things then don't bring and don't complain if you dont' have your thing when you need it"
... it was plain simple..
"rely on no one but yourself.. don't depend on people to look after your things for you.." this they didn't understand and had to learn the hard way coz their parent's would punished them for misbehaving and not doing stuff they they were suppose to do.
was glad that the babysitting thing is over now but can't help wondering how are they coping...Since they've been like my no 1 priority for the past few weeks...